...but I can't help it!

     Okay, so we're going out to dinner later at Dad's for my so-called despedida, which in fact is pay your own way by the way.  So anyway, one of my colleagues said she might as well make it her despedida since she was leaving soon.  I don't mind really, I don't.  But the thing that's getting to me is that now that my former boss has confirmed that she couldn't join us for dinner, she's asking me to tell one of my boss' friend, whom we invited days before, if he still wanted to go with us.  I told her that so long as he knew our boss wasn't going and he still wanted to go, I don't think it's proper to ask him that since that would make it seem like we didn't want him to go.  She said that it was just to make sure he wouldn't feel out of place since he might be embarrassed to say he didn't want to go. 

     I told her since she was so concerned about that, why don't she ask him?  And she wouldn't.  She wants me to do the asking.  argh!

     So anyway, that's it.  The day is almost over and by tomorrow I should be starting a new phase in my life.  Good luck to me!